How to Get Your Ex Back – 5 Big Mistakes That Could Be Ruining Your Chances of Getting Them Back

Hey there My name’s Essy, and if you are here to learn exactly how to get your ex back, then congratulations, you have taken the first step!

Stick with me for the next few minutes, and I’ll come up with a game plan for you to re-unite you and your ex quickly.

I can only imagine how lost, upset and confused you are. We all go through breakups at some time in our lives, and most relationships we realise that it wasn’t going to work, and that it was best to move on.

However when you still really love the person that you have lost, and you know deep down it doesn’t feel right to be apart from them, you need to take action before you lose them for good.

I’m going to show you just what you need to do to find out how to get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back quickly, no matter what your situation.

Now I know you are probably in a very emotional state right now (who could blame you?), but you really need to listen to what I have to say, because I don’t want you to make HUGE mistakes that could ruin your chances:

Mistake #1: Text Terrorism and Facebook Stalking

This is a VERY common mistake guys and girls make.

You may think that you need to spill all your feelings on how much you love them, or how much you NEED them, and that you can’t be without them.

You also may be constantly on Facebook, checking up on them, and constantly terrorising them via chat or messaging.

If you are really dedicated to learn how to get your ex back, then you need to understand the “no contact” rule (something I cover in detail in my 5 part video series).

This is a topic discussed widely online, but few people are either unwilling to go through with it, or don’t see the point of it (I show you just HOW to use no contact to you advantage in video 2).

Mistake #2: Using Logic to Convince Your Ex to Get Back With You

This is a BIG mistake, that I recently saw first-hand experience of. My close pal recently spilt up with her boyfriend, and she was totally devastated.

Rather than implementing the no-contact rule and utilizing the #1 biggest secret to getting an ex back (discussed in video 1 of my 5 part series), she tried to list all the good qualities she had, how amazing she is and how there is no other girl that will “get” him.

Big tip: You CANNOT convince someone to fall in love with you like it’s some kind of business decision. Emotions simply do not work that way, and you cannot go about it this way.

In video #4, I go over the actions you SHOULD be taking in order to re-attract your ex, whilst avoiding the “doormat” syndrome. Which brings me onto my next big mistake.

Mistake #3: Giving Them ALL the Power aka Doormat!

If you want to discover how to get your ex back, then really pay attention to this. Begging and pleading with your ex not to leave you is a massive no-no! The problem with this is, they’ll lose ALL respect for you, and you’re handing them ALL the power, which is not an attractive trait.

Sure, they may be a “friend with benefits” for a short time, but they won’t feel that attraction and love for you anymore, and guess what? When someone else comes along that they don’t have control over but is attracting them, they’ll be off like a shot.

Mistake #4: Making Your Ex Jealous By Going on the “Re-bound”

This is such a HUGE mistake and could possibly ruin your chances of getting your ex back for good. A couple of years ago, I was going through a tough break up, and REALLY wanted to get back with my guy.

I simply had no idea what to do, but my closest friends were telling me “Put some slap on, slip into a short dress and let’s find some hot guys to dance with, that’ll make him jealous and he’ll be begging for you back!”

I thought it sounded a bit harsh, but as I had NO plan, I just went along with it. Well, when he saw the pictures, he lost all respect for me, deleted me from Facebook and I haven’t spoken to him since.

Lesson learned, but you should learn before you make the same mistake. I discuss why jealousy is dangerous in video #3 and discuss WAY more effective methods to pull your ex back.

Mistake #5: Not Having A Plan

Plan plan plan! If you want to really find out how to get your ex back without ruining your chances, then you need to do it correctly. If you just try to “wing it”, the chances of you following the right steps and getting your ex back are WAY slimmer than if you took the time to educate yourself by experts who know EXACTLY what works and what doesn’t.

You need to learn how to re-ignite the lost attraction that brought you two together, and this is where we need to get to specifics. Guys and girls need different gameplans, therefore:

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